Wednesday, 18 March 2009

7 Tips For Your First Date

Here are seven things you should do or must NOT do on your first date.

1.DON'T ask about his height or other sensitive issues. That can be kept for later when he opens up!

2. DO have realistic expectations - get away from the idea that this could be the one ! Then, if things are pretty disappointing, you will be able to come down to earth much more gently !

3. DON'T get too much into psychotherapy. That works two ways - you should not burden your first date with all your problems and neither should you try analyzing your new date !

4. DO get a few words of support from a REAL friend if you are feeling nervous about this first date.It gives you more confidence. Think of all the things you have going for you !

5. DON'T be too nosey. Or don't touch on things which might be considered a bit too personal for a first date like how many kids you want or his/her credit limits!

6. DO talk about things which you feel strongly about. Why not ? Good to test the waters here and that could be from anything like politics, marriage or religion.

7. DON'T talk about your ex. If you do, your new first date might well think that you have a small problem or that you are obsessive or that you might be stalking your ex! This will never make a good impression.

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